The Art of Almost Deciding
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There's something on your desk that you've been sitting on longer than you'd care to admit.
You've gathered the information. Consulted the relevant colleagues. Run the scenarios. And still, something keeps you from committing. Not because the data isn't there, but because certainty isn't.
Many leaders I coach have experienced this. The hire they delayed because the timing wasn't quite right. The strategy they held back because they wanted one more round of analysis. The conversation they postponed because they weren't ready to manage the fallout.
I call it the Procrastinator Mask.
This is the fourth Mask in this newsletter, and it's one of the most misunderstood. Some assume procrastination means laziness. In senior leaders, it's the opposite. It's driven by a fear of the unknown, the belief that without total certainty, it's too risky to move forward.
It shows up as overanalysing instead of acting. Focusing on busy work rather than the high-impact task that actually needs attention. Waiting for perfect conditions that never arrive. Using phrases like, "We need more data before we commit."
The internal soundtrack: What if I make the wrong choice... I need more time to prepare... I might regret this later, so I should wait.
A CEO I coached struggled with launching a new product. He waited for the ideal messaging, optimal timing, flawless market conditions. By the time he felt ready, competitors had already entered the space. The advantage he'd spent months building was gone.
The Procrastinator Mask doesn't feel like avoidance. It feels like due diligence. That's what makes it hard to spot. The thoughts sound reasonable. The delay feels responsible. But underneath, fear is making the decision for you.
Think about the choice you've been circling. Ask yourself: am I gathering information, or am I avoiding a commitment?
Wednesday: the hidden cost of indecision on the people around you.
Best wishes,
Gavin

